From Krista Vernoff, who wrote the teleplay for "Yesterday"

Original Airdate 2-19-06

So, apparently, some folks are getting a little antsy for this blog.   I know, because yesterday, Shonda emailed me and said “The fans are FREAKING OUT. You have to post your blog before they riot.”  This email came as a surprise to me, mostly because I thought yesterday was Sunday and I didn’t realize my episode had aired yet. Weird, yes, but this was a holiday weekend and I was in Palm Springs having a MUCH NEEDED holiday with my husband and I got confused from all the sleep. Sleep will do that to you.  I have the best husband. I am madly in love with him.  Weekends in Palm Springs, where we got married almost two years ago, are about my favorite thing in the world. Really. We are so in love that when we go to parties at Shonda’s house, she frequently YELLS at us from across the room, “STOP LOVING EACH OTHER SO DAMN MUCH.”  True story.  I am living the dream. And aren’t you already a little bit annoyed with me, like, one paragraph in? The point here is that while I love my marriage, it would not make for interesting television.  It really wouldn’t. The script would look something like this: 

Krista and Kevin are snuggling on the couch in front of the TV. 

      KRISTA: I totally want the bald guy with the two step kids to win this year.

      KEVIN: You don’t think Paris should win?

      KRISTA: Okay, yeah, maybe. But they should definitely be the final two!

And they snuggle some more as the wailing sounds of American Idol rise in the background.

Seriously.  Would you tune in next week?  I don’t think you would. The critics would call us “saccharine” the fans would call us “boring” and ABC would cancel us.

Now, if you cut back in time say, 10 to 15 years? My life then might have made for interesting TV. I could tell you tons of stories, but I’m gonna focus on one.  I had this friend. I will call him Jim because that doesn’t at all resemble his name. Jim and I went to college together but we had actually known each other since we were 16. And Jim had had an intense crush on me since we were 16.  And he was the nicest guy in the world and one of my closest friends. And I knew how he felt about me – because how could I not? And for this reason, I didn’t cross that line with him for a long, long time despite many drunken occasions when it would have been easy to do so. And then one night I did. Why? Because we had graduated from college and we were living in New York and I was in a constant state of “what am I going to do with my life” terror and he was there. And he was safe and familiar and so incredibly kind. And I wanted that kindness in my life very badly. I wanted to be a healthy woman who would choose the nice guy who loved me and stop chasing the sexy, unavailable guys who didn’t.  And so, even though I had high hopes in the moment that I crossed that line, it didn’t go very well in the long run. Because at 22, I wasn’t that healthy.  And I hurt a dear friend. And the friendship suffered for it.  But eventually, it was a good thing because he got over me and met and married a woman who loved him back.  And now we’re friends again. True story.

And despite all this life experience? I was, for a very, very long time, WILDLY OPPOSED to Meredith and George hooking up. Like, shouting matches in the writer’s room opposed. Like, storming down the hall to my office and eating vast quantities of Trader Joe’s dark chocolate opposed.  I was afraid people wouldn’t forgive Meredith. I wanted very much for Meredith to be healthier than she is. Because now, at 34, I’ve had several years of therapy and it’s hard for me to conceive of making the kinds of decisions that Meredith makes.  But Meredith isn’t me now – she’s more like me then.  Which, as I mentioned, makes for better television.  And even knowing all of that, I was still opposed. Until Shonda had the flash of inspiration that the Mer/George hook-up should come on the heels of Meredith going to see her father.  It was like the clouds parted. And suddenly, I completely got it. And I completely forgave Meredith.  Here’s why:

My Dad died five years ago today (2/21/01). It sucked ass in a way I find it difficult to describe. The whole month of February sucks for me and on 2/21 every year, it’s hard for me to get out of bed. The loss of a parent is a pain you can only fully understand when you lose a parent.  And Meredith has pretty much lost her mom to alzheimers. And here’s what I think about her Dad: I think that for 20 years, Meredith has, somewhere in the deepest part of her psyche, held on to the fantasy that her dad is out there, just waiting to love her. I think she thinks that when she finally makes the effort to know him, he will open his arms, and open his heart and apologize for leaving and just love her like crazy. The news of Ellis’ affair was the opportunity Meredith had needed to finally forgive him enough to approach him. She gathered what had to be a HUGE amount of courage to knock on his door…

And then the fantasy died.

Because Thatcher didn’t throw open his arms.  He didn’t apologize.  He didn’t invite her in. He didn’t have the right words, he didn’t have the right anything. And to Meredith, that had to feel like a death. 

And then she went to a bar and drank.

And then Mark made her hope again, if only briefly, that she could have the man she loves back.

And then she went home and stared out her window in a state that I can only imagine was tremendous pain and loss and grief. 

And then George came in. And poor George DID NOT KNOW ANY OF THIS. He was not there to take advantage of her when she was in a vulnerable state. All he knew was that he had spent the entire day working up his courage to finally, finally make her hear him. 
And, unwittingly, he said the world’s most perfect things.

He said he would never leave her (like her father did). He said he would never hurt her (like Derek did). He said he would never stop loving her.

And he was safe and familiar and so incredibly kind. And she wanted that kindness in her life very badly. She wanted to be a healthy woman who would choose the nice guy who loved her and stop chasing the sexy, unavailable guys who didn’t (or couldn’t).  And even though she had high hopes in the moment that she crossed that line, I’m guessing,   that it didn’t go very well in the long run.

I think that’s enough for now.  I will try to write again soon to address the other 41 minutes of last night’s episode.  Thank you for watching and for caring so much about these characters and these stories we tell. They do, as you may have noticed, come from our selves, from our psyches, from our lives. Putting that stuff on TV every week is sometimes not the easiest thing to do – and it means the world to us that you continue to care and continue to watch. 

Sincerely, Krista

Comments

[Liz]

The last 2 minutes ruined the show. This was a CHEAP publicity stunt by the writers of Greys. Shonda and Krista should be ashamed of themselves. The show was built from a core audience without these cheap stunts. This was an insult to your viewers. I had no positive comments on the ending of this program. Most people were totally turned off by the need the writers feel to outdo the last episode. Last week you said you cannot make the characters do anything against their will – this was against not only their will but every moral fiber. For God’s Sake they were in bed as friends two weeks ago --- now it is your stalker.

The episode itself reminded me of Season1 but the ending was revolting. Here is an idea have Meredith PULL a TRAIN with the remaining cast members – Burk –Alex – the male nurse and lets just make her the wh*re you want her to be. Get it all over with in one episode and lets move on. No need repeating the slimy wh*re routine on a regular basis. Just have Mer do everyone at Joe’s Bar and then go into therapy.

In this day of stalkers and sex offenders you have given every person a fear of their roommate. George who has been turned into the show idiot now is the CREEP who lives two doors down. How creepy is it to think that this man has wanted to do this to you since he moved in. He now makes my skin crawl.

Now is the time George needs to DEPART the show. McSteamy is the replacement.
McSteamy was a great addition and I really enjoyed his role. He was an honest and sincere male. There was great chemistry between he and Meredith and he and Addison.
You gave us an honest male guest star and turned one of your characters into a DISGUSTING CREEP. It is not a memory anyone will soon forget. I hope Eric Dane is added to the cast and T.R. Knight is removed. He really has lost everything to me.

The Super Bowl is over. You don’t have to outdo yourselves each episode. Leave the gimmics to Desparate Housewifes. This show was not built on CHEAP gimmics.
No need to be OUTLANDISH just to be OUTLANDISH. What I find most upsetting that this is supposedly a show from a woman’s viewpoint? What woman would relate to this incident. If there is a model for this character I hope she is getting the help she needs.

Hopefully Eric Dane is back next week. And T.R. Knight can find a role as the child molestor who lives next door on some other show.

[Sonia]

I get it. Actually, as painful as it was to see them hook up, while yelling "nooooo!", I still got it. Daddy baggage is a powerful thing, and with all the other stuff Mer had going on.....it had to happen.

[Nat]

All I can say is Amen. Amen to your entire comment. As I read all of the rants from the last post I knew not everyone understood why, why she'd do that to George. Because she wasnt thinking about George, she was thinking about how much her life had sucked lately. And I think we've all been there (well maybe not all of us have almost blown up, found out our mom was a bit of a ho and visited our dad for the first time in 25 years) but we've all had bad weeks or months. And if someone looks at you and says those perfect things, you just couldnt resist that bit of peace for one moment. And George had to have his say at some point, no matter the outcome. So thanks for your post and reaffirming my understanding of that scene. I adore the show because of the incredible writing and the true characters. They are you and me and everyone else. Looking forward to next week...

[melanie]

i think i'm still speechless from sunday night.

[GP]

That was very beautifully stated. Thank you.

[Gina]

The show is fantastic, can't wait everyweek for Sunday night. Still not sure about the Mer/George thing, but will not miss to see what happens next.

[Meredith from New Jersey]

Ugh- I am terribly disgusted not to mention grossed out, I love George, for who he is and for what he has to offer to the group and the show, but to have him and Meredith hook up gave me that sick, feeling in my stomach...and it was real. I know that in real life, things like taht happens. Every woman has been there- there are times you feel so lonely, you look for love from ANYONE that will give it to you... I lost my dad too- 4 years ago, when I was 26 and he was 54. I hate the month of December and lose myself during the weeks to come, as the day (12/27) appraoches, so I understand pain and loss and feelings of exteme vulnerability that cannot be expressed in words. But, as much as you try and make everything so real, there comes a point where you need to stop and say, "what does my audience want? What do they want to see happen?" I can tell you what, I can pretty much guarantee that 99.9% of the fans, did not have any hopes for Mer/Geo...

And really, what good could come of this? George can't forgive her...her friends will hate her and my god, what will Derek think? It's just all so wrong, and I was really upset when I went to bed Sunday night...really upset. The whole scene was almost disturbing, almost, painful to watch. It was like brother and sister going at it, it wasn't tender and loving, it was gross.

Please, oh please come up with an intelligent way to get them all out of this...

[Lea]

I have to admit, I was upset with Meredith at first. I love George, and I understand her reasons, but I'm terrified of George's heart being broken. He deserves better than being the rebound guy. That being said, I trust you and Shonda, and I know you'll save poor little Georgie.

[nicole]

YEAY! FINALLY I can make some sense of the last episode! I have to say-I was pretty angry that Meredith didn't say more to her Dad or that she didn't say no to George, I was angry that Izzy keeps pushing George and I was ticked off that George did what he did...but now I understand a bit more. Thanks for sheding some light. I do hope that Mark stays around for a bit longer-he really throws some of that tension that we loved so much in the beginning of the season. And can I just say for the record-this is some of the BEST writing in the TV business I have seen in soooo long-well done!

[Justine Vance]

Krista,
This was a beautiful and perfect response. I am 35 and have been in the exact place that you spoke of, with a very good friend, and also crossed that line. And now, as you, I am happily married. But it took years to move from that screwed up young adult, crossing too many lines, to where I am now. Thank you for writing such a wonderful scene and episode and for responding with such honesty, giving us a glimpse into your inspiration for the show. I will continue to be a huge fan of the show, actors and all of the writing! Truly amazing!

[laje]

As much as I was yelling at the screen, "NOOOOO!" I understood why. Please don't let this break George. He needs the love he deserves.

[Tiara]

Thank you for this explanation. As someone who can relate to your real-life stories, and also someone who relates to Meredith's HORRIBLE decision making, it was really easy to get upset when what happened between George and Meredith..happened.

Thank you for caring enough to explain this to all of us. I know some people are still going to be really mad, but I'm sure there is a reason why that happened. There always is. As a true fan, I will let you fabulous writers do your job. Heaven knows you guys see more of the picture than we do.

Thanks again for the GREAT episode (LOVED the interaction with Christina and Burke...and MARK - wow, that's a totally different blog!). Thanks for leaving me with my wide open. And thanks for explaining your method behind that madness. I can't wait to see what happened!

Tiara

[Betty]

Grey's Anatomy has a core group of long time viewers
who grew to love this show without cheap stunts and stupid gimics. This was absolutely the most vile thing you could have done.

You crossed the line with so many of your viewers. You and Shonda should be ashamed of yourselves for promoting this type of episode on the podcast.

I loved the episode up until the last 2 minutes. It finally reminded me of Season 1 - FUN, CUTE, and SEXY. But it now seems that the writers are trying to outdo each other on each episode.

George is creepy. How would you like to think a guy you have know less than a year has been living in your house and basically stalking you comes into your room looking for sex.

This will make every single girl with a male roommate go get a lock for her door.

Now, for Meredith's character she only has Burk, Alex, Webber and Joe that bartender left to do.
Can we do them all at once and get this SHOCK value type garbage over and done
with.

Since a character has to leave PLEASE get rid of George - between bumbling idiot and creepy stalker - he can find work on a Crime show.

I do hope that you keep McSteamy - Eric Dane around. It was nice to have an honest, sincere male character. The chemistry between he and Meredith was great. Ellen deserves alot of credit for how well she pulled the scenes off with him. McSteamy Please. I enjoyed a man who speaks his mind and can see what goes on in front of him.(Derek could use a little of this honesty)

George please GO.

This was a stupid stunt that I hope you all regret.
Remember DH started pulling this stuff and their rating went down the tubes. I won't continue watching if this is the stupid things you intend to put on the air

[Jen]

Krista,

I guess this means it wasn't a dream?? Damn. What's with Izzie, telling him to go for it? It doesn't make sense to me why Meredith would sleep with anyone (especially someone she has to see every day!) right after she has this huge surge of hope that maybe things could work out with the guy she really loves.

Anyway, I really think the George/Meredith thing sucks, but don't worry I won't stop watching or anything... I'm an addict! Please make it go away quick, that's all I ask. I hope you bring back Thatcher too, I'd love to see that story line develop.

*Jen*

[Bree]

Krista,

Okay, I'm starting to understand Mer's decision. I'm so glad you wrote. I have to say one, I'm so sorry about your lost. I have never lost a parent to death but I was abandonded by my father. I have never seen him and he has never tried to see me. So, I am digging deep to try and understand Mer. However. . .I'm at a lost, it was George-good guy, always there, go to the store and buy your tampons GEORGE. But I do see your point and now I'm geared up to see next weeks eppy. Thanks again. And yes Shonda was right we were about to start a riot. Thanks.

[Carolyn]

You realize that we will eventually have to kill Meredith when she inevitably breaks his heart, right? But still, that was very well done, so kudos. I didn't really want them to get together either, for the reasons you've stated, but it was so good I was jumping up and down on the couch squealing like a little girl. Awesome.

[RandomRanter]

Thanks for sharig your story (both for the show and your own history). This always gives me a little more insight. And it showed in the episode, becuase while I was mad at Merideth for the train wreck I can see coming, all those pieces did help me see why right then this all seemed like a good idea. Thanks again.

[Emily T]

Thanks for your insights into the Meredith/George hookup. It makes me (almost!) okay with it. More importantly, I am looking forward to seeing how Thatcher & Meredith's relationship develops. And...I am so sorry about the loss of your father.

[Erin]

Okay, so I suppose I can forgive Meredith for that transgression... But what about George? When does he get to find himself? He's long overdue for something good to happen to him. Poor Meredith (and I'm being sincere there) keeps trampling all over his heart. Meredith can get through all of this. She doesn't know it yet, perhaps, but she can, and I know she can. George on the other hand just seems so lost with everything. Even if his love life doesn't get any better, what about his professional life? He's just too sweet not to have at least one good thing come out of all this drama that's about to start with Meredith, even if it's not what he really wants. He's seriously at the point where any normal person would fall apart.

[Amy]

I gotta tell ya - I feel much better about Meredith after reading this. I was screaming and yelling at the screen in the last seconds of the show. "No George! Step away from the unhappy lady, George!" But now I can honestly say Krista hit the nail on the head in her post. Totally been there, Mere. Carry on.

[Nikki from MD]

Okay.. I read the blog.. I understand where the you and Shonda are going with this but as I am sure you can imagine.. it cames as a shock to us fans. We just hope that Derek, George and her friends forgive her and understand why she did what she did. I dont even know if its possible to make her more unhappy.

We still believe there's hope for Mer/Der.

[Mattie]

George and Meredith

GROSS

DISGUSTING

REVOLTING

VILE

NASTY

Got the idea!!!!!!

CHEAP STUNT!!!!!!

PLEASE DON'T DO IT AGAIN!!!!

Liked the episode EXCEPT for the last 2 minutes

MCSTEAMY WINS OVER MCDREAMY

Please let McDreamy & Addison have their marriage.

MCSTEAMY AND MEREDITH

Make a great couple

[Priscilla]

Krista,
Thanks for highlighting the context behind the Mer/George situation. I was upset with the Mer character until i thought about all thats behind it. I also have to commend you on throwing McSteamy into the mix. His comment about how Derek didn't react when he saw him in bed with Addison made me realize that Derek stopped loving her long before their marriage ended. I felt sympathy for Addison although she's in the wrong.

I hope we get to see more of McSteamy bc his nick-name doesn't do him justice.

[jinohio]

That will be one of those "yikes! what did I do!" morning afters. No good ending there. He'll be broken hearted, she'll look like a villan, etc. Maybe this will be the impetus George needs to move on.

[Patricia]

None of what you said in your blog explains what your episode did to the show, it was just awfull and so out of character for Meredith, there is no explanation for that. She never ever saw George as a "possibility" she never ever did that. If you wanted her to keep sleeping around you should have given her another partner, even a one night stand again for her , not George, that completely changes the dynamic of the show, I really hated it. What a let down after the wonderful SuperBowl´s episodes. I am sorry but the show is not the same, at least for me, and I have watched since day one, Sorry.

[Jenna]

wow. thanks for clarifying where you came from with this. I know when I watched this, I was screaming at my tv, NO YOU DIDN'T!!! and I know deep down, it will work out for the best. But your words brought an intense amount of clarity, so thank you. And as much as I hate watching this past episode again and again, I have to, because as painful as it was, I realized it was beautiful kind of pain.

[lynn]

I was hoping that McSteamy and Meredith would hook up to add more tension between her, Derek and Addison but I'm sure it would've been too cliche to do it. (It still would've been good!)

[KAREN]

I just want to say before all the haters get to you that I truely love this episode. I think what you did with George and Mer was perfect. I hope this will heal Mer and help George understand that no matter how much you love someone sometimes they will never love you back in the same way.

[R*belle]

Wow. I have to say that the show is awesome, it has given new fodder to the sometimes (gasp) unstimulating conversation of Bunco clubs and supper clubs down South. My blog generally garners 9-10 comments a post, but the Greys posts (now garnering their own category) are generating almost 20. Thanks for writing such an amazing show!

[Kay]

We ( I am using this as the royal we as I am speaking for a group of 30 something women) appreciate all of your hard work. We really do. We understand that this is a TV show and that it is silly to get worked up about a relationship that is not even real. That said we waited for years for Doug and Carol on ER to hook back up. We watched while Dr. Ross ( Cloony) made all of the wrong moves and horrific decisions, screaming no at the TV while he again did something really stupid in his personally life that spilled over from time to time into his work. Since he was the "Damaged one" on the show we watched and waited for him to grow up. Since you have made Merideth the damaged one on this show. Incapable of making any right decisions we are watching and waiting for her to grow up. We get it. However, this is our fantasy try not to make us wait 3 or 4 years for her to clean up her life and get back with Derrick. We won't be waiting on Sunday nights forever. We will be watching re-runs of the first season of GA and the first 5 years of ER instead.

[Lisa]

So, after spending the past 2 days trying to figure out the how? why? and seriously?! that has been filtering in and out of my head, it all makes sense. And I'm near tears just reading this.
Until now, I didn't know what to think. Was Meredith taken advantage of? Was George? And, above all, what about McDreamy!!! I didn't want what happened between George and Meredith to change that love. And maybe it will, and maybe it won't, but at least it's all clear. At least we know why Meredith did what she did.
You writers are incredible. And this blog is the next best thing to the show. I love that you love this show as much as we do. I love that you respect your relationship with the viewers. And I appreciate the fact that your words back up the actions your characters make and that your emotions can justify those words and those actions.
Thank you. Thank you.
This will get me through until Sunday :)
And, much love and peace on this day. Today is my niece's 5th birthday. I guess 2/21/01 means a lot to both of us for vastly different reasons. After struggling with open heart surgery and years of sickness, she's blossomed into a wonderful, sparkling little girl. For me, each 2/21/01 is a celebration of her life. May today be a celebration of your dad's life, too. Let us hug our families and hold them tight.

[Ale]

I'm sorry that you had similar experiences, but frankly, as a writer, I am not buying any of this explanation. And as a viewer, I am buying it even less.

This is a TV show and having Meredith behave like you suggested does NOT make for better television. It makes for more soap-operish television. This Meredith-George move was a cheap publicity stunt on your side, with both you and Shonda telling everyone to watch the last two minutes and you guys kicking in this scene between them which was A)totally uncalled for in the economy of the show and B)also sick, given the so far relationship between George and Meredith.

I am tired of reading POOR GEORGE... George is NOT poor George, George is a 12-year-old who pretends he is an adult, and thinks he can get away with anything he does because everyone tells him "Poor George" all the time. And it is the writers' fault, because you made his character so ridiculous with this pathetic teenage crush on someone who is supposed to be near thirty and not near twenty, that he just looks like the most one-dimensional character on the show. He does nothing wrong, because POOR GEORGE he is always justified. Well he is not, and he screwed up big time. And George may not know about Meredith's dad but he sure knows she has been going through hell and holding a bomb in her hands not later than two weeks before. So that alone could make him use BRAINS for once. And think that he should not put on emotional stress on her! And stop being a selfish 12-year-old who goes around the hospital whining that "I saw her first". What on earth was that?? Is this how an adult person is supposed to behave, even if they're in love? Character-wise, this was just ridiculous. And life-wise, we all have crushes, but after teenage years, WE GET OVER IT when someone clearly does not want us!

The worst thing about it, is that you ruined a potentially fantastic episode to have that last utterly uncalled for, sick scene between George and Meredith.

I really was happy about the episode, until that. We had McSteamy (McSafin, since he looks like Marat Safin) which was a terrific addition to the show. Finally someone who speaks like a normal person and makes some sense. And very easy on the eye, which is always good.

But that last scene. It made a for the rest fantastic episode a total turn-off. That really was as "melrose place" as this show can get.. and it is there for everyone to see. That is not writing better television. That is sensationalism at its best. Frankly, it really disappointed me especially from the writing point of view. Because it was a bad scene, it wasn't felt, it wasn't natural, it had nothing right. It was just sensational. And I really am glad you noticed people are revolting, and that should tell you that your first feeling about it was right. Most of the world is not SO messed up to go to such lenghts as George and Meredith did. And you cannot always portray extremes in a TV show. Instead, it is what you have been doing this season, dragging on a marriage which makes the people in it look completely stupid and putting Meredith in such a number of pathetic storylines that she looks like a mental person.

You should learn from this, and not try and justify what is evidently and clearly a bad move from both the writing and the "common sense" point of view.

I rehiterate.. this was possibly the best GA episode I've seen so far. Until that last scene. That ruined everything. And you should know, because we should be here talking about the major news Mark broke and the major disappointment Meredith had from her mother. Instead, we are here talking about a pointless scene. A cheap publicity stunt.

[Stephanie]

Just because you did something like this personally did not make it right for George and Meredith.

Their relationship was not long term. They barely know each other.

This was creepy and GROSS

I can only think you did this for shock value.

I have watched this show since the beginning because of the writing. Not because of stupid stunts.

The episode was good except for the last 2 minutes.

Hope Meredith and McSteamy are the next couple. The two evil mistresses had great chemistry and Derek doesn't have the balls to leave his wife.

You really screwed up!!!

This was so wrong

DEAD WRONG

[haydee]

I am not as much a fan of what happened with Meredith and George..but I loved how finally McDreamy had the guts to tell Addison that he hasn't forgiven her yet. So it is this moment that we've all been waiting for..I can see Mer/Der being together again :-)

[Krissy]

I was Upset about George and Meredith. But thank you for the blog.

[Baylink]

...even if we bitch about how we think you've screwed up, right? :-)

Comment on your actual posting to follow shortly (that takes more thinking), but, herewith, Snap Reactions:

GA 2/19 -- If you can identify each of the scenes these comments refer to, you get dinner, on me. Nice steakhouse. (You do have to collect in person... ;-)

These clips? Seriously?

Burke cuts *loose*. Woo, and likewise hoo.

Ruh roh. He Knows.

Just don't say who it is...

And *just* when George sees his chance...

"My mommy's a filthy whore"?

Shyeah, right, Izz...

So, are we playing that Whose Line game where everyone has to ask another question?

Well, now, that was an open. Which is good, cause it was all we get. :-)

Ah, Derek has a job title. And a nice salary.

You go, Chief.

Surgeon macho. I love it.

McSexy. Hee.

Katie bites her lower lip. Ok; I'd better quit now.

The things you'll say when you're dying. :-)

Oh, *ghod*; we're not going to put Mark to work, too...

No, *that's* not a seizure disorder...

Izzie's *way* out on the edge.

No George, it's not something you want to cure.

It's *amazing* the things people can agree to ignore.

Wow. This guy's gonna recover just from getting all the hate out.

She doesn't care if you're jailbait...

Chief does a good aw shit look.

Doctor chicken.

4 inch heels? Addy'd never get hired by House.

Denile is just a river in Egypt.

What she said, George. More lip gloss.

Did you hire Christophe Beck to do the incidental music?

Izzie learns a lesson.

I hear the anvils falling, this week.

Coochy-coo surgery; I love it.

They talked Sloan into it? The parents? Seriously??

Aw, come *on* Meredith.

Oh.

*Oh*.

Ooof.

And baby makes three.

Ok, Addy; *now* do you believe Mark?

"I'm going to the bar across the street. If you choose me, come on over." Yeah.

That's the way we do it...
He looks like Jon Bon Jovi, is what he looks like.

Chinese food. How amusing.

I overreact a lot.

But, aw....

You can tell by Izzie's hair, can't you George?

Shiny happy Izzie.

Oh, Mere; *no*.

Joe gonna save her.

Well, *this* is gonna be a train wreck. No, wait.

Yeah; train wreck. George...

That is *not* the look you wanna see on her face...

This can't end well. It can't.

Seriously.

And next week's all about conflict and bad timing.

[LJ]

Thank you Krista. I understood Meredith completely when she made that choice and I understand the repurcussions (sp?) of what's to come. I'm just happy you guys are taking risks and creating a deeper, more involved story. Honestly, this show makes me cry every week. And after seeing Meredith get rejected by her father and then with Derik, I just felt for her so much when she finally let George have what he wanted. It was beautiful and tragic and needed. Thank you for sharing with us!

[Crystal ~ Central, AL]

That is exactly what I was thinking when George walked into her room. I was actually standing up, haha, I really get into the show. Anyway I was standing and talking out loud saying OMG they are so gonna have sex OMG what about George he is so in the wrong place at the wrong time, OMG. HAHA I was aggravated but I just kept thinking what the heck would I have done if that had been my dad and then this sensitive sweet guy walks in...I think it was great writing, but I gotta say it so does not convert me from being a mer/mcdreamy Fan!

Also I loved loved LOVED the added mcsteamy! And my favorite line that was awesome hear from george was...."shes mchot, mcyea she is" hahahahah genius.

Speaking of mcdreamy and george I and a friend had this conversation. Hope its ok to share here I just thought it was funny and at least someone that is apart of the show would get a smile out of it....

Self: "...even thought mer/derek are my new rachel/ross, george does remind me of ross more than derek, lol.."

Friend: "George is SO much more Ross than Derek. Derek is like.... Barry."

Self: "...no no nooooo derek is like joey and ross in one...the total package..."

Friend: "Dream on woman."

Self: "seeeee now your getting it, dreaming of mcdreamy"

HAHA I just thought it would be fun to share. And by the way I loved reading about you and your husband. I don't dream of dempsey although he is very attractive. I have the type relationship with my husband that you were describing. We literally make people sick! Its bad, hehe.

Thanks for a wonderful show I hope this isn't too long and I can't wait to read your other blogs, esp about other parts of the show! I would love to hear anything about the new secret that Addison stayed with Mark. Man I was so starting to like her, but I was mad, lol.

100000% great job!

[Kristina Miller]

I think it's so brave of you guys to include your own personal stories into the show. They're the kind of things that you never want to talk about, but you guys do so and present them in the best way possible (even if it's the worst memory of your life.) I couldn't even think of hating Meredith for what she did, because she wants something that most people desire.

Anyways, episode was awesome and I can't wait for you next post and also the next episode!

[Maggie]

Its hard to boil Grey's down to a favorite episode, but this one has to be in my top 5. One of my favorite things about the way this show is written is that the writers are willing to write storylines that viewers may not expect or necessarily want to see. But when they do happen....WOW. That's all I can say. WOW.

[Kim K]

Great writing. You're right, people who make wrong goofy choices ALWAYS make for better television. Us old married broads like to relish in our wisdom. See the great thing about Greys Anatomy is, me and my girlfriends gossip about the characters on the show as opposed to actual people we know. So you are providing a great service that allows us to dog on 'pretend' people as opposed to eachother.
This show is like a really good book that never ends. I LOVE the read and rarely watch t.v. but this show is so great. Keep up the good work.

[anonymous]

Wow, great episode. I think a lot of people have George's in their lives and there's nothing like a little ego stroking now and again, especially when you're at a low point in your life.

I also have a soft spot in my heart for people that have lost a parent. I lost my dad almost nine years ago and I don't know what I would have done if I didn't have such an incredible mom. I guess that's why I couldn't be upset with Meredith for showing up after 20 years to at least tell her dad that she finally knew the reason why he left, but why couldn't he have tried harder!?

Also, I feel I must bestow kudos to whoever it was that played Joshua Radin's "Closer"!

[Cindy]

Krista,

Well, I'll be damned. Those shouting matches you had in the writer's room? I was having one in my living room Sunday night. (Though, as the television wasn't shouting back, I suppose that "match" might be overstating it.)

In the cool light of day, however, I have to concede that Meredith's psyche was certainly on tilt at the time... her general oblivion to George's ministrations is another subject, but in that one moment, drenched in despair and looking for refuge, I guess I can see how she'd make a bad choice.

Oh, and as for Cristina's perfect two-second rebuttal to Burke's Great Speech - aces, really. Nicely played.

[Michelle]

First of all, my sympathies for your loss. I cannot even imagine losing a parent, as I'm only 16, but I truly appreciate your courage at opening your personal experiences to the entire country. (Literally!)

I am in complete agreement with you about poor George. As I said in my previous comment, he was simply in the wrong place at the wrong time. I just hope that the friendship between Meredith and George is not ruined after this...

Eagerly awaiting Post-Part-Two!!!

[Sarah in Mpls.]

OK, so I understand where you're coming from - but for those of us without your insight, without the view of the future of these characters, you can understand the shock that was created! Meredith needs to rebound and fast! I know that everyone says that they've never been involved in a show like this before, and they've never written to a show's writers before, so it sounds cliche, but it's true for me as well. I've gotten so many others hooked as well, so kudos to you all. There are just so many of us who fell in love with the show largely due (to the fabulous writing but also due) to McDreamy and Meredith's chemistry/relationship - so we wait, and wait, and wait for them to reunite. All of the other characters are great as well, but forgive me, I do want the fairy tale - I've got real life all on my own! So keep up the great work and know that, for now, we will be there for you week after week - but we do get inpatient!!! And thanks for reading our comments!!!

I've found that I love this show because it isn't cheap, stupid, or meaningless . . . you have done an incredible job at creating something that is truly worthwhile at a time when very little on television is. I implore you to not let this show fall by the wayside and become like every other show out there . . . those things that right now it is not. Thank you, and keep up the good work!

[Danielle]

I wasn't opposed to the Meredith/George hook up. I'm just sad that George is going to get hurt when Meredith wakes/sobers up and says "Holy Geez, what the he** did I do?"

Been there and got the t-shirt to prove it. Only bad things can happen when sex occurs at a moment of weakness. You can never put the genie back in the bottle.

Anyone know the names of the songs/artists that played during the show?

[Tcheese]

Thanks for explaining it! While I find it kinda icky, I completely understand why it had to happen, especially in order to further George's eventual need to move on. I still heart Kyle Chandler.

[D in Texas]

I appreciate your post, but I still just don't get it.

My Sunday nights are pretty cookie cutter - I put my son down around 9 p.m. and I wait to watch my favorite show - Grey's Anatomy. I watch the show, wipe away my tears (as I have cried during every episode), turn off the t.v. and cuddle up next to my hubby. I always feel content after watching the show and I can't wait until the next week. But not this time. As it became clear Meredith and George were getting ready to hook up, I looked at my husband and said "Don't do it Meredith," like she could hear me. As it became clear that she was indeed going to "do it" with George, I just cringed and got disturbed. Not in like an "ugh" way - it was more like "are you serious right now?" I understand that Meredith was vulnerable and all in that very moment, but taking it there was just not cool. She could have thanked George for his thoughts and kindness in so many other ways - why on earth did she have to sleep with him?

To address the issue about Meredith's father - I thought his reaction was natural. His daughter, who he hasn't seen in 20 years, show up at his door out of nowhere and starts asking about an affair. He was in shock. What on earth would you expect him to say? Would anyone have the right words in that situation? Sure he could have apologized for not being there for her, but shouldn't she have apologized to him or at least expressed an understanding why he left?

My dad died 20 years ago this past September. And, like you, every year when the month of his death rolls around, it gets a little tough. I might cry, I may have a few extra beers, and I understand that loss that Meredith must have felt over the years. But maybe she could've relished in the fact that her dad was still alive and that if she so wanted, she could have a relationship with him? That whole scene was very, very weird. I hope you guys pursue it further to try to make some sense out of it.

Finally, I'll say this. I woke up Monday morning and still had that feeling of disbelief about what I'd seen the night before. I've grown attached to Meredith - I can appreciate some of the things she's struggled with and can relate to some of them as well. Because Meredith was so relate-able made me watch the show. But to think that she slept with someone who is kinda like her brother is just nasty. Disappointing. I see where you guys were going with this, but I don't think it worked. No one I've talked to, not one person, thinks its a good story line.

D in Texas

P.S. Bring McSteamy back - he gives McDreamy a run for his money. And the Burke/Christina thing is awesome.

[agog]

THANK YOU! Really. Thank you for pointing out that Mer is damaged and hurt. I get so tired of people saying sh'es a "predator" or "a slut". It's like they don't remember or have never had a time in their lives when they wanted desperately to be healthy and make the right decision, or what they thought should be the right decision. Sometimes you do the wrong things for what you think are the right reasons. And it doesn't work out, and it sucks. Bad. But it happens. Meredith is not a slut. She's been all but abandoned by her parents. Her mom chased her dad off and then chose a career and affair over her(and it doesn't seem as if she was overly loving/giving to begin with). The guy she thought she could love turned out to be married, and then chose his wife over her. How can she have a healthy view about anything at this point?

[Ty]

I just wanted to tell you all that you are beatiful writers, both on television and on this blog. As an aspiring writer, I am bouyed by your writing each and every week, devouring the words, and hoping that someday I can have a career as, well, cool as yours.

And I will be yelling at Meredith all night next Sunday! Poor George.

Thanks!

www.tonguetyed.blogspot.com

[FanofGrey]

So what you are saying is...because you slept with someone who was a friend and someone who loved you but you didn't love back you decided to let the same thing happen to Meredith and George. Didn't you learn some kind of lesson from your experience? Maybe that you wouldn't want the same thing to happen to someone else? Absolutely the worst thing to be done to either character. Sad, Sad, Sad.

[Melanie]

This was such a great episode, thank you! I'm having a bit of a hard time liking Meredith right now. Yes, she was vulnerable but ... aaaah! OK. I can be OK with it. But only because she and George have to get through and be friends again. Right?

[Val]

You're not the only one that was opposed to Meredith and George. I was too. Do you know that I always skip the mail of the fans that are pulling for M&G? Of course you don't. How could you? But I do. I was that much opposed. As a matter of fact I still am.

You pulled it off in the only way possible. No, not possible (or I would have thought of it). You pulled it off.

Even though I thought that, being the great team you are, you could have pulled something else. And made it just as believable.

In spite of all of that, I'll forgive you (all the writers and Shonda Rhimes in particular) only if you manage to deal with the rest just as brilliantly.

All taken, it's amazing how much mud there is in Meredith's life...somewhere, sometime things have to turn. Right?

We have hope. Right?

After what you (all) did with M&G, it's hard to say what I have to say. But here it is: a great episode. The best so far.

I know it's still February. But do write on the other 41 minutes. I'll be waiting.

Otherwise, using Burke's words "That makes you a lier."

Sincerely, Val

[kc from geogia loves grey's]

Okay, I know I am not the first to comment, I am sure the "blogger" guy is reading as fast as he can to approve them and pass them on and so on...

Gosh, I love this show and Krista as I love Shonda I love your portrayals of these characters as well~~ so Kudos to you.

I was one of the ones that wanted a brief or even an elongated "hookup" with George. ( I love George so much ) But sort of not this way, because the awkwardness is going to be hell for them but because of the friendship they have~~ they will get over this (hopefully). But poor George, and poor Merideth. The anticipation of watching to see how this makes them feel is very hard for me. I can imagine it, but not sure of how you will attempt to go in future episodes.... So excited and nervous at the same time. That is good writing-- thanks so much but it is killing me.

On to something else, thanks for Cristina in this epi. I saw her being different that the hard-ass that she is. I saw her countenance be a beautiful thing and see she knows how to make you feel that Sandra Oh SO knows how to act!!

I love these people!! I loved Mark (McSTeamy), and I love that Der knocked him out~~ and Mark called it all under the carpet and bluntly told Addi what she has been thinking for a long time-- but she still waits and waits and waits some more..

Great! Great!! Great!!!
Keep it coming and keep it SO VERY hard for us to stop watching what will happen to the people we love to watch-- Grey's Anatomy..
BRAVO

[Jacquelynn]

Thank you for your thoughts. You have definitely shed some light on the George/Meredith hookup. However, I am still really against it. I kept screaming at my TV, hoping it was one of George's carnal fantasies. It is so wrong on so many levels. She will eat George alive. George needs to be with a girl like Olivia (sans disease, of course). Meredith HAS to be with McDreamy. Why in the world was Izzy encouraging George? What a bad friend -- to both parties. Yes, I know that feeling of unrequited love and I know about those vulnerable moments, but this hookup feels unholy. I really hope it is either a dream or a very bad one-night stand. This was the worst episode. Please don't continue in this vein. PLEASE!

[Vicky]

I'm soooo glad you posted your entry. I was one of those livid fans who were wondering where you were and why you would do that Meredith!
I love her and for the first time on Sunday, I couldn't.... I just couldnt believe she would do something like that!

I think you guys should know that alot don't like her and on sunday you came really close to losing the very few that do.
I understand now why she did what she did.... I just hope everyone else understands and would forgive her also.

By the way, I'm happy you are sooo inlove and happy and healthy. There's truly nothing like it.

Thanks for sharing.

[Esther]

Such a great episode! I was one of the people wildly opposed to george and meredith getting together but after watching the episode again I finally got it. How could she have said no to george? After he was so sweet and amazing? But alas I suspect poor George is going to get stomped on. Thanks for writing an amazing episode! And thanks for the McSteamy thing. I swear juice came out my nose. Keep up the good work.

[Robyn]

I was very dissappointed to see George and Mer hook up. She won't love him the way he deserves and he has hurt so long watching her with McDreamy. I'm not happy at all that it happened. Last week you finally showed a stronger side of George that we loved to see and now you are going to make him weak and vulnerable again. I'm dissappointed.

[Judy]

You ruined the show for me.

Finally a good episode and you ruin it with the George and Meredith thing.

You finally have a character who has the guts to fight for the woman he loves in McSteamy. You finally brought someone with some sense to the NEVER ENDING MARRIAGE that has drudged along all season. He was such a breath of fresh air compared to Derek who can't make a decision. He was honest, funny, and sincere. The perfect man for Meredith

Addison can't get her head out of the sand and Derek can't make a decision. They are perfect for each other.

SO PLEASE HAVE GEORGE EXIT THE SHOW QUICKLY

McSteamy & Meredith

and no more STUPID PET TRICKS

THIS WAS GROSS

[Turtleherder]

This episode has inspired more conversation in my group of friends than any other to date.

First, we all adore McSteamy because he's just hot... and if we're being completely honest probably because of his gutsy bad-boy attitude too.

But mostly our debate rages about George/Mer. There are two camps: The "of-course-they-did-it" camp and the "that's- so-WRONG" camp. I'm vacillating myself.

Either way I'm glad to know that you fought against the pairing for so long. I'm happy to know it was thought through because it's such a tough call. It sure makes for good TV! And you're right, I'd much rather have strong and steady in real life.

Condolences on the death of your father.

[Jeanne]

You guys rock! I love that you gave us a (mostly) funny episode after the last two weeks. Please don't turn into a crisis a week show like ER. Bleck!

And keep blogging - whenever the mood strikes! Don't just wait for Mondays, your insights are terrific!

[Carissa Henry]

Another great episode...I look forward to Sunday nights like I never have before! I appreciate well-written shows and "real" characters. Grey's Anatomy is a show that is touching, humorous, believable, and heartfelt.
Thank you for filling this void in t.v. land.

[Lydia]

First of all, you know that awkwardness of wanting to say sorry about something you don't know anything about - That's how I wanted to start this out. So in my own little awkward way, sorry about your dad. What a great episode this was! I still don't know how I feel about George and Mer, mostly I just want to throw up a little in my mouth! But hey, I understand why you did it. I really hope that there is a storyline that involves Addison and Mark in Seattle together. As much as I didn't want to, I couldn't help but like Mark a little... probably the same reason that I like Alex a little. Anyway, great job with the writing!

[Dacia]

What you've written makes sense. But what struck me the most is that once she decided he said the right things, she did not (could not?) look him in the eye.

Also, you had the lionitus patient comment that he knew his parents thought he was perfect, but for once, he would like someone else to think so as well. Meredith's parents didn't think she was perfect. Last season, she spoke of her mom saying she didn't have what it took to be a surgeon. Now, her mom doesn't even recognize her. Then this episode her dad did not respond in a remotely positive manner, she just broke.

It was very obvious why she reacted as she did, she was like the patient. She just wanted someone to think she was perfect and precious.

BUT, poor George. The scenes for next week just break my heart. You all had better do right by him!

[AB]

Krista, Shonda, other writers--We could be friends.

[GreyWatcher]

Well... I suppose THAT would be the definition of hitting the nail on the head.

[Julia]

Seriously. I mean, seriously. Are we as people who use critical judgement and who want quality TV supposed to believe any of this? I'm sorry Krista, you are my favourite writer of GA together with Shonda. But this time, you guys really got it wrong, on so many levels.
That scene with Meredith and George made me sick to my stomach. And not in the sense that I got strong emotions from it, but in the sense that I think I was being put face to face with a daytime soap opera instead of with a show I have learnt to love since episode one.
You wrote up a wonderful episode with the arrival of Mark (please, give us more of him!) with all his hot outspoken attitude, and you just sent it right into the bin with a few final seconds. One scene. Neither us viewers, nor Meredith and George deserved this.
My sister just expressed her disappointment, and for once I felt I had to do this too. Because such a low cheap shot was too much to take.

[Nikki]

I think the friendships are one of the greatest i have seen in a show in YEARS! You are destroying them, taking things too far! i quit watching friends because of the whole rachel and ross thing! if you are determined to not put meredith and derek togeather yet(hopefully sooner than later) fine but the friendships are what keep us watching every week! You don't trun your back or hurt friends no matter how vunerable you are like you all are playing meredith to be

[Lesley]

Krista,

Thanks so much for posting and for sharing so much of yourself. The first part was like reading an autobiography, b/c I too am very much in love with my husband of 14 years and agree it our relationship would make very boring television. Our raising 4 children - well there are moments that would make for very good tv ala Super Nanny but I digress. I am in full agreement with your description of losing a parent - my month that sucks is August, August 13th to be exact. It's been 2 1/2 years since I lost my dad, keep waiting for it to get better in the way is was before, but then I remind myself that this is the new normal and the new normal sucks.

Anyway enough about me, I am very glad you finally posted and everything you said I totally agree. Mer was so vulnerable and George was so clueless. The one I hold responsible is Izzie - bad friend, I posted elsewhere. She was so wrong to encourage him to go down a road that will only lead him to heartache. She was too caught up in her own wants that she was supportive when she should have been - George you deserve better than someone who is in love with someone else.

The addition of Mark was perfect, just the right thing to cause a bigger rift btw Addi and Der (I hope). Love the line about Der feeling obligated, spoke volumes. I also rolled at the chief saying "did you put your weight behind it?" Brilliant. My last favorite line went to Mer when she tells Christina that her mom is a slut or something like that; it was at the beginning and haven't had a chance to watch the eppy again.

Brilliant writing; you really pulled together a good episode to follow the roller coster ride Shondra put us through the past two weeks. I am so looking forward to Sunday; pathetic as that sounds, but to this mom it is one of the high points of my week. Seriously, there are four of them and I am seriously outnumbered so by Sunday night I soooooo look forward to sitting on my ass doing nothing for one hour but being entertained by the wonderful cast and writers of Grey's Anatomy.

Keep up the great work.
Lesley

[PamelaJaye]

Krista,
I seriously thought you were going to say you had to write Meredith and George, much as you didn't want to, because it was your turn. ;-)
(it stinks to be the unlucky one like that, if you guys have "a rotation" (do you?))

but you're right. those were the right words at exactly the wrong time. and maybe Meredith did want to be able to fall for the "good guy." And I still feel sorry for George.

My friend Joanne has a life that we like to call The Walt and Joanne show. I think they are in love (though not demonstatively, perhaps) but they do manage to make such snarky comments to each other (Walt teases her a lot over her teenage crush on Scott Bakula -- and it's really funny. Just trust me)

Anyway, looking forward to hearing even more, and hoping you don't mind telling us all about it. You know we just eat it up. (and someone will hate me for this, but I think I'll refer to Mark as McVomit. I don't like him, I don't think he's steamy, Mc or otherwise, and of course, he ruined Derek's life, and by extension Meredith's (not that all of them, including Addison don't bear some of the blame..)

And oh, btw, could you please tell us what exactly was wrong with "Episode Girl"? It was nice to hear she was going to surgery to get "all better." But it would have been nice to know what it was... (yes, I am spoiled by House, but I love Grey's more, and even if I weren't -- where was the last time David Shore talked to the fans?)

I wrote out this whole thing yesterday. I'll see if it's still worth posting...

[Katherine]

Wow. Thank you for giving me this insight. i love that you love the characters. And will do right by them.

[PamelaJaye]

PS -- thanks ever so, for what you named Episode Girl. I really needed that...

Hope you enjoyed your sleep filled weekend. (I had to work yesterday, but not very hard. our biggest customer had the holiday even if we didn't).

[Wendy]

That was amazing, Krista. That is why you are a wonderful writer. You made me feel for Meredith in a way I didn't ten minutes ago. I thank you. Keep writing..you are doing a phenomenal job.

[teri]

thank you so very much for comeing and talking to us.. and makeing the characters real....

I totally understand the issue with george and meredith..
and said all along thats why she slept with george is cause he said all the right things she so desperatley wanted and needed to hear....

it just makes meredith human.. not a mcslut or anyting like that..
just human... with needs and wants..
she just wants to belong to someone who will love her..with all of their being...

thanks again...

love you guys
this show is the best!!!
I am obcessed... its scarry...

[The Famous Artist]

Oh Krista: I understand all that stuff, but still, George's heart is just going to break in a zillion bits. And Meredith is going to have to live with this for the rest of her life. And everyone is going to look at her differently.

You see, I didn't believe it when she told Dr. Bailey she was doing fine, or whatever she said. But I didn't know that she was just not that fine. But I do get your point of view. And I do understand that Meredith is about 26 and hasn't really done much living outside of going to school. But you did make my heart ache. And I can't wait to see how they get beyond this.

As an aside, I will vote for Paris. But I love the grey haired guy, too.

[Rachel]

I find every week, during the last two minutes of the show I am screaming "NO!!! I HAVE TO WAIT A WHOLE WEEK TO FIND OUT WHAT HAPPENS!!"

Poor George, he is so nice, and he reminds Meredith (and Meredith's mom) of her Father. The actor that played Meredith's dad reminded me of George, so good job to the casting directors on that as well.

The writing on this show is fantastic, and the fact that you have a blog to write about writing the show is fantastic. It is always interesting to see the bits and pieces of a writer's real life that ends up in a show.

This show is about relationships, which is why I watch it. At first I was a bit frustrated by the fact that whatever was ailing multiple "episodes" girl was not really explained or that the cure was never explained, but at the end of the episode, I didn't care. I don't watch this show for the medical aspects, I watch this show for the relationships because they are realistic and believable, and I WANT to know what happens next with them.

And the Christina dancing in the kitchen scene was awesome!

Thanks again for a great episode!

[Kim]

WOW, a whole long post about only 3 minutes of the show. We're really dying to hear what you have to say about the rest of the show. It was an AWESOME episode. AT least, right up until the last 3 minutes. which sucked! I understand the reasons, but the fans did not like that. You did not need to go there. you killed their friendship, which was one of my favorite things about the show. I'm sad about that.

[Jodee]

I had visions of you writers twisting your proverbial moustaches, rubbing your hands together and chuckling evilly as you wrote this story of George and Mer. I knew that mean little teeheehees were escaping as you created this scene to make our heads spin, to mess with out minds, to make us gasp and choke as we screamed NNNNOOOOOOOO at our televisions. You have made me forgive you, I apologize for thinking you were enjoying our pain. I appreciate your screaming and storming and chocolate consumption. Now I know that as much as I care about our beloved interns, you care too. And you aren't evil. Except the part about making us wait an entire nother week to see what happens.

[Sarah-Beth]

Thanks for (finally) posting. Your post helped me at least, hate Meredith a little less. Because- whether she needed comforting or not: what she did was just plain wrong.

[Brianna]

OK loved the episode up to the very end w/ the whole George/Mer hook up. My first reaction: SERIOUSLY?!?! But now w/ that explanation I've calmed down some & though I'm still not fond of the ending, I understand it more having been there before. Keep up the awesome work over there!!!

[CA]

Incredible. That's all I can say. Every week I think this show can't get any better and then it does. You guys are amazing. Seriously.

As for Mer, I think she did what anyone in her position would do. She turned to someone who really does love her at a time when she really needed to be/feel loved. I'll probably get torched for saying this because I hate that George is very likely going to get hurt in all this -- and I do love George like most other fans. But in reality, he knows where her heart is and he went for it anyway. So what does he expect?

[JY]

Krista - thanks for posting your insight (esp while on vacation!). I think people don't always like what Meredith does but on some level, manage to relate to her. Let's see if that holds true this week...

[Whitney]

OMG! i totally get that. poor george! i was so happy when he got the courage to ask merideth to dinner, but i almost cried when she wasn't paying any attention. then, merideth took advantage of him, i don't think i will like either of them as much. (no offense) i still LOVE the show!

[Amanda]

Sunday night's episode was amazinggggg. I just wanted to tell you how much I love this show and how each week gets better and better. Please, please, please let McDreamy and Meredith get back together!!!!

[Krista]

You knew your friend for 6 years

Meredith has only known George for less than a year

THIS WAS DEAD WRONG

YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW YOUR OWN CHARACTERS

I believe you have lost track of the character you created.

THIS WAS NASTY

[Cristina]

Sigh. Just please...don't hurt George too badly. Okay? Krista?

Seriously.

[Alicia]

I loved the episode. Very moving and touching. When Meredith tries to reach out to her father, I thought it was amazingly written and acted. Though, I didn't like the las t30 sec, I understood how it happened. I just hope it isn't a momentary thing and the consequences of what happens between George and Meredith is played out. Great writing Ms. Vernoff.

[Renee]

Thanks for the insight. I think I understand and even forgive Mer, a little. Poor, poor George.

[steph]

I LOVE that you finally allowed that to happen, but I worry the consequences that Meredith will suffer in the long run. If sides are taken, I fear they will be in favor of George. But he is an adult and made the choice to go there with her. I know you won't because you are brilliant writers, but please don't make this a soap opera drama. The thing I love most about this show is that it is so real. the relationships are ones I have in my own life. Meredith's inner monolouge is so clearly what we all think and feel about things. My favorite scene was the opening with Christina and Burke while Meredith was talking about being a child. Thank you again for great, smart, fun TV!! This is a show I an actaully looking forward to watching in reruns because you guys are so smart and quick that I know I will not only enjoy it just as much, but also pick up on new things!! Great job Krista!!

[Pamela]

Ok, all day yesterday I kept looking at this site to see if you put the newest blog up....finally! This episode was sooo great. I hate Mark of course, but man is he dreamy or what? Just take Addison away already, but that wouldn't make for good television would it? Keep up the good work, I absolutely love this show.

Yay! I've been waiting for this blog since Sunday :) Meredith and George hooking up probably wasn't the best idea when she's feeling emotionally unstable but I guess, it's like real. People do stupid things that they will end up regretting. I seriously can't fully blame either of them. George isn't exactly going to turn down his dream girl and Meredith just hears everything she wanted from her dad from George. Granted she responded as a woman rather than a girl but I think it's understandable even if it's not likeable. You writers are so damn good that I have faith you'll make the drama post-sex interesting. Hopefully George will get over Meredith. The sex probably is gonna help him to do that as he'll realize that he's not what she wants. Then maybe he'll hook up with someone who really loves him and he loves back? Please? Georgie deserves that :)

[Cranberry]

Hey, Krista, this is Amy from SaveWonderfalls.com. You wrote two of my three very favorite WF episodes, and I'm so glad you've found work on another excellent show. You've written some amazing episodes so far! I missed the writer's credit at the beginning of this one, but I could tell it was you -- the episode was quick, quippy, and romantic, and I loved it. And the ending! Wow.

I think I'm in the minority, but I love Addison and feel so bad for her. I'm glad the writers haven't painted her as some horrible shrew who showed up just to break up Mer and Der. I also don't hate Meredith. Although I hate what she's doing to George, I can understand. Every character on this show has so many layers and no one is truly unlikable, and that's what makes it great. I hope you stick with Grey's and share your stories for a long time! And I'm sorry you often seem to have to follow big episodes by Shonda. ;) To your credit, they still stand out.

[Jennifer]

O.k. You know that most everyone had five heart attacks when you hooked up Mer and George???? YUCKY!!!!! But I will get over it :)
Mark was so awesome in this episode. He made the show so much fun. I loved how he was so honest in telling it like it was between Mer and Der. I hope he stays and Addison ends up with him. She deserves to be loved like Meredith too.
This episode made me think of highschool. George standing by looking at the two highschool jocks fight over Meredith, the beauty he loves. He is the geek on the side lines....funny how some things never change. I love George so much but he will never replace Derek for Meredith.

[Kelly J.]

I totally understand where Meredith is at in her life -like you said -she is me, a not so long time ago. Kudos to the writers for making her so human, even when it makes us scream "NOOOO!!!"

[Maria]

I understand the reasons why Meredith did what she did with George, but I still can't get that horrible image out of my head! Seriously, I get the wave of naseau all over again when I think about it. I just don't like this story line twist, and I still don't know if I will be able to get past it. Please make this ok again for those of us who are still sick to our stomachs!!

[CL]

Hi Krista, I actually like the Mer & George's storyline. Keep up the good work, you make the show more interesting :)

[Fan in NC]

Krista,

Thank you so much for sharing your stories with us. I think it was a great episode, although, yes, I'm quite upset at Meredith right now.

I'm sure y'all (yes, that's how we say it here in North Carolina) have a grand plan and it will all work out one day. I plan to be there every week to find out.

Love the show. Love the music in the show.

Thanks a million for putting all your heart and soul into it!

Big Fan in NC

[Melissa]

OK - when you put it that way, I forgive you for Mer/George. A long time ago I too had sex with a boy who loved me more than anything and he was kind and sweet and all that was good. And I broke his heart twice because I was in a horrible place in life. When looked at that way, Mer seems less like an evil skank, so thank you. I am now dying to see the consequences of her actions. Also - could we keep McSteamy around for a few episodes PLEASE? Thank you for the excellent writing - I live for Sunday nights again.

[Joey]

When I watched that final scene, my first thought was "George, you idiot, she's going to tear your heart out." But after I read your blog, it makes perfect sense when you see it in the right perspective - he didn't know what she had been through in the last few hours. But, it will turn out badly. There is no other outcome possible. Fantastic writing and why I keep coming back every Sunday night.

[Sherry]

I TOTALLY got why Meredith did what she did. Lots of people are calling Mer a whore and all that, but this thing with George is much more than needing a quick ride in the hay.

I did it in my 20's...and I can see why I did it, some 18 years later.

[ariella]

Thank you Krista. I recognised a younger me as well in Meredith's actions at the end of the episode. Unlike you, my George/Jim and I were never able to come back around from my ill-conceived attempt to care about him as he did for me. I hope that Meredith's story resembles yours more than mine.

Regardless, thank you for writing something so real and human. That I could sit on my couch, and hate what she was doing with every fiber of me, and yet recognise that that hatred has its real source in how I still feel about my own actions... there's a certain magic in that.

I still love Meredith. She's complex… and rather screwed up… and entirely real. Hopefully one day (soon) Derek will be able to help her heal some of these wounds - those she knows and those she hasn't even recognised yet. In the meantime, I can only remember my younger self and try to be patient with her.

More important than my forgiveness though, is George's. As sweet and sympathetic as he is... I do wonder if he will be able to understand, and in understanding have the desire and the strength to try to forgive. To paraphrase Derek - he's under no obligation so to do. On the other hand, being George could he do anything but try? I guess we’ll see.

I'll hold off on any comments on the rest of the episode till your next post :-) There is one other thing on this topic that I wanted to say, though. I’m sincerely hoping that Meredith's life starts to turn the corner soon!! Between her mother, her father, the debacle with Derek, now this angst with George, and an intern's workload... I'm going to start worrying about allowing this girl near razor blades, sleeping pills, water deeper than a puddle, etc.

[val]

hey Krista! Am I the first person to post this week? Score! Anyway, just wanted to drop by to say how absolutely infatuated I am with the show! Kudos for the another great episode! =)

[Sam]

I have to tell you that one of the reasons I watch Greys and am so passionate about it is that you writers really care about your fans.
Thanks you for caring and PLEASE DO NOT HURT GEORGE TOO MUCH!! Meredith is not for him. We all know what needs to happen!!! Mer/Der forever! Mark/Addison forever!

[Kate]

Wow.

That really made sense to me.

I'll admit I was of the "George-and-Meredith-should-NEVER-hook-up" camp (and still feel that they shouldn't STAY together) up until about 2 seconds ago. In my shrieking at the TV, I never really took the time to think about why it happened, and now I have to say that I totally agree with you that it had a purpose, and despite the heartache it will probably cause for both characters, it will turn out to be a good thing.

Just, ya know, make that "good thing" part be recognized sooner rather than later, m'kay?

[Grey Ran #1]

To be honest, I did not like the whole George and Meredith thing. I don't thing any of us (fans) did. It made her look weak and damaged her character. Even though George is in love with her, and knows the whole McDreamy history, to be a true friend, he should've stopped her from sleeping with him. It would only ruin the friendship between the two. This is just my opinion.

[Monica]

Yes.. We were freakin' out. So thanks, Krista. Because I felt very crazy jumping up and down my bedroom screaming to the TV "don't do it, Mer, don't do it!!" But now I get it. I still feel bummed, but I get it.

[Jenny]

I love Meredith and can totally see why she did what she did. Last night's episode was amazing, as always. Thank you for giving us such great tv, even if it isn't something that EVERYONE thinks should be done.

[Grey Fan #1]

To be honest, I did not like the whole George and Meredith thing. I don't thing any of us (fans) did. It made her look weak and damaged her character. Even though George is in love with her, and knows the whole McDreamy history, to be a true friend, he should've stopped her from sleeping with him. It would only ruin the friendship between the two. This is just my opinion.

[Rebecca]

Krista,
Thank you for posting, but I still feel that you are grasping at straws in order to justify the decision that was made to bring Meredith and George together. You all are better than this! As someone who,like Meredith, was abandoned by her father, and didn't meet him until 20 years later, I know what that fantasy is like. I know what it feels like to grow up and wonder, "Is this the year he'll remember my birthday," running to get the mail, only to find the mailbox empty. You do this until finally, you give up hope, okay, maybe not fully, but you know that he's not ever going to search you out first. And you think you can live with this knowledge, but then you realize, you have to know. You have to know "why", before it's too late, and he can no longer give you that answer. There's only one problem with this, because when you finally do get up the nerve, and you finally ask the question that you've been dying to know the answer to, there's a big let down. There isn't the big "happily ever after" that they try to show on tv. The reason being, because even though this person has hurt you in a way no other human being could hurt you, you still have hope that this person is going to love you. He's your DAD! Instead, as Meredith discovered, this parent is nothing more than another flawed individual. And the answer they give to your question of "Why?" is sadly lacking. This is what you should have written about..This is what should have been the focus. Not how can we hook George and Meredith up for the sake of hooking them up. You can't always use sex as the answer for Meredith and her problems. It's downright pathetic. Have her laugh, have her scream, have her cry or throw something. Have her turn to her friends for that hug she so desperately wanted from her father but didn't get. Heck, have her talk to Derek about it, since he's become more and more of her confidant of late. Talk about something that could bring two people closer together and show a deepening, more meaningful relationship. The show's theme was about "growing up", maybe it is time the writers grew up, too, and wrote something intelligent instead of pandering to the masses of mediocrity...

[Maria]

Thank you to all of you for this show. Seriously.
That's all, just thank you.

[Melissa]

Its funny how we watch a show and root for one character, we watch and watch and wait for the things we want to happen to happen. As I watched that episode, I gasped (SERIOUSLY!) in horror as George walked in. If you have ever been in the position of needing someone to be the one to stand up and tell you what you need/want to hear as Meredith did - you know nothing good can come from it. I have been there too and have lost a friend or two over it. I commend you for showing how human these characters are and how connected we can get to them by sympathizing with their pains, cheering their joys, or reliving our pasts.

[L and D]

Hey Krista,
I totally understand...as a writer myself I realize that conflict makes for a great story. I was happy and sad for George cause I know where it's heading. I was screaming at Mer's dad for not doing something! What, not even a hug!? So, I totally can relate to how Mer could have taken his apathy. I am so interested in finding out more about Ellis and how her affair and Thatch leaving all played out.
You all are great writers, you keep us on the edge of our seats every week!
Thanks for another great episode, now go cuddle you husband and enjoy your boring yet happy life! :)

[Lacy]

My thoughts on "Yesterday" and the corresponding blog:

First off, I must be a complete basketcase because this blog made me cry. The episode didn’t. It was too damned McFunny to make me cry. But the blog did.

The scene between Thatcher and Meredith was wholly unsatisfying and I loved it that way. Good job, Krista! I loved how they didn't have to go through introductions or do "the thing where you say something and then I say something and then we hug and there's, like, a moment." It just was what it was. Real and tense and awkward and abrupt. Actually, it mirrors her moment with George at the end of the episode perfectly. In any case, bringing the Thatcher Grey dynamic into the episode wherein George takes his shot was a great move. And I seriously can’t believe we didn’t get to see more of Ellen’s face during George’s big reveal! And you’re right, it’s going to be hard for us to forgive Meredith. Harder still for George to forgive Meredith. And I don’t even want to think what this will do to Derek. I actually yelled at my TV screen, “Meredith! If you hurt him, I will hunt you down and...” I’m not even sure which him I meant now.

I have a really fun mental image of Meredith waking up in the morning next to George whispering "what did I do, what did I do, what did I do..." Or more like "what do I do now?" since she can't pull her usual stunt of booting him out in the morning! It'll be really fun to watch this play out. Excruciating. But damned good TV!

Come to think of it, maybe a good dose of heartbreak will give our George the edge he needs to really compete in The Game. What is it Bailey calls him in the first episode? A puppy dog.

Seeing Mark and Alex together was really interesting. They're like dopplegangers. It goes a long way towards explaining why Derek has so little patience with Alex.

Oh, and did you and/or Chandra add in the "Now!" dialogue just to give a little nod to the Mad TV spoof?? Huh? Did ya?

[brownaddict]

Thanks Krista, I've also had a "Jim" experience. I've also lost my dad. I'm also blessed with a good marriage. So I'm with you.

I wasn't one of the fans going crazy, I am addicted to this show, but trust the writers. Hell you guys have what I need to feed the "Grey Beast"

I was very surprised at the ending, but more in a "Meredith, if you put that on George, you better be not be playing!!! You will remember his name!

Thanks for posting on a day when you could have easily gotten a pass.

Give us some scoop on Burke & Cristina and the medical cases, themes, and tye it all together. Do this as soon as you can.

Peace

[Julie]

Thanks for your explanation! Although I am not a fan of a relationship between George and Meredith, I do understand where you're going with it now. I was one of those viewers who were screaming, "What?!!" at the end of that episode, but I do have to say- that's what keeps me watching (the unexpected). Thanks again and keep up the inspired writing!

[Cheri]

Krista,
I thought last night's episode was perfect! Parts of it confused me (at first), but what I like the best about the show is how it forces you to think afterward, in order to really get it!
Thank you! I think the "superbowl" story would have been tough to follow, but you did it well!

[Russ T.C.]

The hookup was strange, but things like this do happen. I just hope it doesn't ruin the great friendships that have formed between these characters.

That's my deepest fear.

[Guy That Gets It]

Very cool Ms. Vernoff, because admittingly during that final scene all I could think of was "why are you doing this Mere?!! To George!!" Because I feel I'm very much like George and have in the past gone for the unattainable girls. And been through that, the fallout does hurt because I felt the girl shouldn't have gone for it (sending mixed messages)and having their problems clouding the relationship.

But after reading posts from the opposite angle and getting the story behind it FROM YOU no less-- gives me a great idea that Mere's stuck in a bad spot in life. And it sucks horribly, for George and Mere, but the end result will be that they are both better for it. And I love that you, Ms. Vernoff, and the writers are couragious enough to go in that sharp direction. I've never seen before on other TV shows so I was a good twist and it's fresh and interesting.

I love how that's the style of GA, taking real life stories and giving it a direction that may be surprising and hard for anyone to make in actuality. Once once it's made, the result may be for the better and not for the worse as many fear it can be. And most of the time we can't see the good side of a bad choice unless we've actually taken that road. All in all, that scene makes a lot of sense now.
I also like to say I LOVED that whole episode, seriously, I think that was the best one this season, perhaps better than the 2 parters :) Very sharp writing and I loved the musical choices!! JOSHUA RADIN? Thank you thank you. I was like "Dude, they're playing CLOSER! It was on Scrubs last year! Now it's on GA!" Good job guys.

[Amanda]

Ok I guess we can call off the riot! We were wondering when you were going to post! I am not mad at Mer for the George thing but boy oh boy I can see the reprecussions of that. That, and I'm sad for George. Is that feeling of being close to Mer just for that little bit worth the hurt to him? I don't know. I guess we'll have to see. I'm just really thinking Mark and Mer need to form and allience and break up Addison and McDreamy. That would rock. LOL Oh and I have to say I LOVE the name McSteamy. That's just seriously Mcfunny!

[Niki Morgan, Oklahoma]

That entry didn'thave much of anything to do with the show... I feel stupid for reading that entire thing. I'm not here to lear about Krista... I'm hear to lear about Grey's Anatomy and wht happened on Sunday's eppisode. What just happened here? Where's Shonda?

New fan here, from the SuperBowl episode!
I know that there are those who think Meredith is whiny, but I love her imperfect ways. And wh